My friends, and the friends they decide to associate with....

First a Little Backround

Ok, I don't think I can say I've ever had a "best friend" (cue 90's teen movie w/ choreographed prom sequence). I've been close, but no one ever really lasts. It's sad I know, and there are probably a million little or my own character flaws that allow this pattern to continue.

The two most predominate

1. I let myself get taken advantage of.
What can I say, I'm just a girl who can't say no. It drives my husband insane. But
when asked a question like "Hey can we throw a party at your house, because we
all still live at home?" I am the idiot that says yes. Not only do I say yes, but I buy
$70 worth of food, soda, and give out my liquor.

2. I am judgemental.:
I know it's wrong, but I really can't help myself. While my attitude is usually
what's good for you is not always good for me, I do get to a point where I've had
enough. If you're that unhappy with you're life change it, if you don't like that
person stop talking to them. I don't really want to hear it anymore. I also have a
tendency to make opinions based on the people you hang out with. For instance if
you are friends with mostly sluts, there is a good chance you are one too. I know,
I know I sound life a huge b*tch.

So Now
(names will be changed, although if they ever read it I'm screwed)

Lets talk about said party for a minute. Immaculota broke up with her bf Chad about a week before. We all didn't like Chad, but no one didn't like him more then our friend Katherine. He was a pot head, a children's magician, and a few years younger. Immaculota of course is really upset. She wants to drink and get drunk. Fine. Awesome. I understand. Did she drink way too much. Yes. Did she drink so much she got sick? Yes.

Now highlight Katherine, Chad's biggest hater, and probably the one I was closest with out of all of them. Katherine invited some of her work friends. Who most are Pot Heads, Dress up from 1860's for work, and are younger then Chad was. What the hell is the difference between them & Chad? Because you're not dating them it's ok? They are everything you hated about Chad, yet you now hang out with them more then us. What does that say about you?

Now I know she would have some snarky comment to answer those questions, and tell me all the reasons why her friends are so nice, and better, and blah blah blah. Bottom line, I'm a little disappointed. My husband is encouraging to to try and talk to her, but bottom line, I don't think I could. I did tell her that night I was disappointed, and angry that she would bring that to my house. And the fact I needed to track someone down to go out and tell them numerous times they needed to take it somewhere else. She may have been to drunk or high to remember. If that is who she decided she needs to be at this point in her life, then there is nothing that will change that.

I'm not going to stop talking to her or anything. But it was a situation where god forbid anyone got caught, there were alot of people at that party, where their jobs could of been at risk. At the time she should of though, hey you know this isn't my house, maybe this isn't a great idea.....

Just saying...